Can you imagine meeting the love of your life thousands of feet in the air? It may sound like the plot of a romance novel, but for influencer Megan Meza Gethinson and her now-husband Freddie, it’s a real-life love story. Sometimes the most extraordinary moments come from the simplest gestures—especially when confidence is part of the equation. I had the pleasure of interviewing influencer Megan Meza Gershinson for my latest feature social life magazine.
Megan Ford: Ms. Meza, you are known for the way you met your husband. What do you think are the ingredients for a healthy relationship?
Megan mesa Gethinson:
Trust and communication are key to any relationship, especially a long distance one like ours. We are all over-communicators and this really helps build trust, even from over 5,000 miles away. Trust is not built overnight. It takes months to develop but can be broken down in seconds. Therefore, it is crucial for us to be there for each other consistently. Honestly, having fun and laughing together is so important. This may sound simple, but when I think back on my previous relationships, I realize that I never laughed or smiled as much as I did with Freddie. I guess I just assumed that this is what a relationship should be like. But the truth is, your partner should be your best friend and you should be able to have fun together.
Megan Ford: What role do you think confidence plays in finding a partner or forming new friendships?
Megan Mesa Gethinson: I really like this question! Freddie and I talk about this a lot. One of the first messages he sent me actually mentioned how attractive he found it to meet someone who was so sure of himself. I was in a very different place the year before I met him, and while I thought we would still find a connection, I thought our relationship would be completely different. I think you need to be your best self in a relationship. If you don’t love yourself, how can you expect others to love you (romantically or as a friend)? I think it takes time to build confidence. I guess I didn’t really find it until I was in my twenties.
Megan Ford: What are your and your fiancé’s immediate goals?
Megan Mesa Gethinson: Our main goal right now is to enjoy this time together! After a long journey of 2.5 years, we are finally living the life of our dreams. We set a fun goal to visit a new city or state each month and it has been such a joy exploring it together. Beyond that, we are deep into planning for our 2025 wedding.
Megan Ford: Why is kindness important to you? You and your now-husband met on a plane. So, besides romance, how do you think kindness and open heart shape this environment?
Megan Mesa Gethinson: The world feels very dark these days and I think we all could use a little more kindness. When Freddy and I met, it was during the pandemic and people were just going through a lot. Even something as simple as smiling on the plane feels like a simple enough gesture of kindness. I never imagined that this smile would lead me to my life partner. This just goes to show that small acts of kindness can bring the biggest rewards. I don’t think you should be kind expecting something in return, but I do believe that when you give kindness, it tends to come back to you.
Meghan and her husband Freddie shared: “We actually got legally married in November in a small civil ceremony with family. However, we are still planning a big celebration with family and friends in 2025.
Megan and Freddy’s romance reminds us that small acts of kindness combined with confidence can lead to life-changing results and even a lifetime of true love!
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