It’s after Memorial Day, which means it’s summer, which means it’s almost July, which means my birthday is coming up. A few years ago, by chance, I started a new birthday tradition. Here’s the thing…
In late spring, I ordered some colored glasses. I loved the bubbles of blown glass, but I also felt a pang of financial irresponsibility when they arrived. Of course I didn’t need them. Can’t I just use a regular wine glass I already have? Then I came up with the perfect solution: I could classify them as birthday gifts—gifts from me—and feel interpreted.
Great, right?
Since then, every time summer comes, I pick up something special for myself. It doesn’t have to be expensive or a necessity. One year, I bought a black vintage dress for twenty dollars. I already have a few black dresses, but not the perfect one yet swing-y Hit mid-calf. This dress now hangs in my closet and every time I take it out it reminds me of my 32nd birthday. Another year, I bought several novels at the local bookstore; they stacked nicely on my bedside table, and I always spent that summer reading a good book on the beach.
Love gifts for life.
This year, for gifts, I have a few contenders. Maybe I’ll go back to the only blush I’ve ever wanted to wear, or try a bright lipstick. I’ve had my eye on the GH Bass Fisherman Sandals for a while, but since I want to do a better job of saving money, I’ll probably pick up a cheaper pair on Poshmark. Or I could choose a native plant from a nearby nursery to put on my balcony. It’s nice to see it grow and see how big it gets with my help Next Birthday.
So, let’s play a game: If today was your birthday, what gift would you give yourself? If you’ve gotten into the habit of buying gifts for yourself, what’s your favorite?
PS 12 readers share their favorite birthday celebrations and the crazy things Joanna did at her 40th birthday party.
(Top photo by Maria Manco/Stocksy. Next two photos provided by the author.)
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